Wednesday, May 15, 2013
The problem with Seth MacFarlane’s humor, as always, is that he’s almost always punching down instead of punching up. He’s picking on people who have always been picked upon, and he thinks he’s hilarious for doing so. What’s more, he’s making a lot of money from other people who enjoy that sort of thing. But that doesn’t make him funny. It makes him one of those fratboy douchebags who seem to be everywhere in life, even into middle age, making uncomfortably insulting wisecracks that always seem to end with the protest that “I’m just joking.” The result? The two white guys are the straight men in this bit. Everybody else—foreign, old, female—is ripe for the ribbing. Joel Mathis, “Seth MacFarlane’s Racist, Sexist New Show, Dads
Wednesday, February 6, 2013
Please excuse me while I vomit.
[For anyone who’s confused, Lindsey Vonn is a member of the US ski team who suffered a terrible crash and season ending injuries this week. But obviously the only thing that matters here is that Max Hulett gets to ogle her like a piece of meat.]

Please excuse me while I vomit.

[For anyone who’s confused, Lindsey Vonn is a member of the US ski team who suffered a terrible crash and season ending injuries this week. But obviously the only thing that matters here is that Max Hulett gets to ogle her like a piece of meat.]

Saturday, December 22, 2012
Just found my diary from seventh grade.

This is an actual thing I wrote at thirteen - I was quite the charmer, as you can see.

The best part is later on when I struggle to reconcile this boy’s overt sexism with the fact that I have a crush on him. Also, the fact that I used the spelling “luv” and the word “excruciatingly” in the same sentence the previous entry.

  Hang in there, seventh grade me.  It will all come together some day.

Just found my diary from seventh grade.

This is an actual thing I wrote at thirteen - I was quite the charmer, as you can see.

The best part is later on when I struggle to reconcile this boy’s overt sexism with the fact that I have a crush on him. Also, the fact that I used the spelling “luv” and the word “excruciatingly” in the same sentence the previous entry. Hang in there, seventh grade me. It will all come together some day.
Sunday, October 28, 2012 Saturday, October 6, 2012

Too often the discourse of motherhood and pregnancy is shaped around a privileged lens. We discuss what it means for white middle class mothers in America to go through pregnancy, the pressures they feel to live up to a certain lifestyle, and the countless parenting resources marketed to them. We know that the middle class white mother is pressured to live up to being the best mother she could be. The black mother, on the other hand, has an entirely different reality. The black pregnant body is received by society in an entirely different way, more likely to be met with scorn than joy. It is assumed that the father is unknown or out of the picture.

To have a discussion about the implication of the First Lady calling herself the Mom-in-Chief without once bringing attention to her destruction of the “all black women are terrible mothers” notion is so intellectually dishonest it’s criminal. At best, it is disingenuous to the discourse. Yes, the First Lady is a smart woman who should never have her accomplishments minimized, but I reject the idea that she is not allowed to take pride in doing something that black women are told repeatedly that they are unable to do. Who is to say that her challenge to the negative stereotypes ascribed to black motherhood on a national stage isn’t just as big of an accomplishment as her awards and degrees?

Michelle Obama and the Myths of Black Motherhood

This article was written by newwavefeminism, and it’s incredible. Seriously, you need to read the whole thing. 

(via stfusexists)

Monday, September 10, 2012


Girl Talk: I Had An Abortion 

Twenty-two percent of all pregnancies in the U.S. end in abortion. Yet, as common (and legal) as this medical procedure is, it’s still radicalized - even considered shameful. It’s so important for us to tell our stories and stand together!

Girl Talk: I Had An Abortion

Twenty-two percent of all pregnancies in the U.S. end in abortion. Yet, as common (and legal) as this medical procedure is, it’s still radicalized - even considered shameful. It’s so important for us to tell our stories and stand together!

Thursday, September 6, 2012
To have [my story] taken away and given to someone else, and a man at that, was truly distressing on so many levels…Sometimes women express an idea and are shot down, only to have a man express essentially the same idea and have it broadly embraced. Director Brenda Chapman, who was fired from Brave and replaced with a male director.  Chapman was the first woman to direct a Pixar movie. (via racebending)

(Source: hollywoodreporter.com)

Tuesday, August 28, 2012
[Paul Ryan] talk[s] about women as if they’re nothing but flesh-bound ovens to cook male heirs. Amanda Marcotte, She’s Just an Easy-Bake Oven: How the GOP and the Anti-Choice Movement See Women

(Source: seriouslyamerica)

Friday, August 24, 2012
This, apparently, is totally unacceptable to them. There are memes devoted to the dreaded “friend zone.” There are angsty chain Facebook statuses that are posted passive aggressively time and time again. One of them reads, “A woman has a close male friend. This means he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much.” Right, because no one want to be friends with a woman unless she’s having sex with them eventually, right? The status continues to compare a woman just wanting a friendship with a man to a job interview in which the potential employer says, “You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we’re not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But we’re going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic.” See? Super, super nice. When “Nice Guys” Aren’t: The Sexism of the ‘Friend Zone’ (via stfusexists)
Tuesday, August 21, 2012
Beyond the general GOP’s war on women, Akin isn’t even the first political figure to state this exact position on the subject of rape and abortion. Rick Santorum voiced the exact same brand of “medical science” during his 1991 bid for the House of Representatives. Santorum wasn’t just a Senate hopeful - he served in the Senate for twelve years after four years in the House. He was the Republican front-runner for two months of the primary, and he’s delivering the keynote speech at the Republican National Convention in Tampa next week. These aren’t the shockingly misinformed ramblings of one Todd Akin, but the actual beliefs of a man that many Republicans thought was a perfectly viable candidate for the presidency - a man who held federal office for twice as long as Akin has. This is a guy who won debates against Mitt Romney. Republican Nominee Todd Akin Makes Ridiculous Rape Remark…And He’s Not The First (via stfusexists)